I was so devastated and angry. I know for myself I will be taking this time to improve myself as an individual, I will do something different with my hair or something to give me more confidence, and I will start working out more, but mostly prove to myself that I happy and okay with this. To quickly add i have ever once broken up with him, i always said he was the one for me and that i would rather talk through things and fox them then leave, however he has broken up with me atlas 5 times, but always comes back after a weekish as i always go off grid! Please give me some advice on this. I felt guilty. Its just how it works Ive seen it dozens of times. and he would eventually listen to me. 3 Ways to Make a Guy Regret Losing You - wikiHow My ex and I broke up almost a month ago, because he stated that love was dying and that he isnt interested anymore. And 2 days before he broke up with me we were looking at houses and baby clothes. Those people need therapy. Hes been going out and even took a weekend vac to FL. and says that I love you but I am confused about you.I cant even think that you said I love u to someone else. Primarily because it felt rushed after my previous relationship, and I didnt think it was fair to commit to a new relationship so soon. The only thing that would make a man regret losing you is if you level up every inch of yourself and replace him with a better man than he is ( a high value man preferably ). He also told me that he thought our relationship was hard because we barely get to see each other and that he had he had a girl that he he kind of liked. Thats not really the important thing right now, right? Hello Lisa. I dont think you should not reply. She lets me see and keep the child whenever I want. I want him to tell me that he wants me back because I would do nothing in this world than be with him again. Personally I think there is no such thing as the one. I was trying to give him space. I would write back that Im happy to receive his email and that Im taking his words into consideration and thinking about things, and that you respect his point of view and really thinking about it. I just wonder if the feelings are gone for good and hes just scared to be in a relationship (he hasnt been in a relationship in about eight years and just got out of being in the marines for seven years so no female contact at all). Like, no one can give us an answer as to why. What you are really asking is a way to regain your confidence, your security, your trusting in your self. We have not yet communicated again. Youre the best at it. If you can except him the way he has meaning kindness, love etc AND cheating tendency together I would tell him that. I miss him like crazy and want him back but I also had the chance of seeing them 2 together and to me she didnt look too happy but maybe it was just in my head. they kept us up late talking through things and reconciling. He never even tried to contact me . Do as you feel, its the right thing. So, if you determine that you can't forgive him for what he did then you are going to have a hard time having a successful relationship in the future. But when he realizes that's not true, he'll immediately regret losing you. Is there a way for us to get back to how we were?